Embracing Autism

EP 757 – Running on Fumes

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 15 Nov 2024 05:01:00 +0000

Tune in as we expose the raw reality of the intense exhaustion of parenting an autistic child that can feel all-consuming. We dive into the common experiences of feeling overwhelmed, depleted, and "running on fumes," with a reminder that it's okay to simply be present with your child without trying to immediately strategize.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Adam Abramowitz

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 08 Nov 2024 05:01:00 +0000

Today we’re happy to connect with Estates, Trusts, and Probate Attorney Adam Abramowitz. A sincere desire to help people protect their loved ones inspired Adam to focus his legal career on estate planning. He believes estate planning is an ongoing, lifelong process and he works with clients to see how each decision they make will fit into the overall picture of their long-term plan and goals. Adam is dedicated to assisting clients with all aspects of estate and trust planning, including the use of trusts for the next generation, charitable gift planning, special needs planning, disability coverage and estate and trust administration.

Website: www.steinsperling.com

Facebook @Steinsperling

EP 756 – A Boo-tiful Halloween

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 01 Nov 2024 04:01:00 +0000

In this Halloween-themed episode, we’re excited to share practical tips for creating a fun, sensory-friendly Halloween experience for autistic kids, and a special guest appearance from the newest member of our family! We’ll also talk about how Halloween might look a little different this year as we embrace these changes.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Amy McCoy [Sponsored]

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 25 Oct 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today we sit down and chat with Amy McCoy, an autism parent, award winning children’s author, and disability educator. Her debut children’s novel, Little Big Sister, shares the sibling perspective of growing up with a brother who has autism. Amy combines her expertise as a former elementary school teacher with her experience of parenting a child with autism as she visits elementary schools, libraries, bookstores, and parenting groups offering interactive presentations highlighting disability acceptance. Amy lives in New York with her husband, Greg, and their children, Matthew and Kathryn, who are the inspiration for her books and her work.

Follow Amy on Facebook @AmyMcCoyChildrensAuthor and Instagram @amymccoyauthor

Snag your copy of her book at www.littlebigsisterbook.com

This episode is sponsored by Little Big Sister and Amy McCoy.

EP 755 – Weathering the Storm

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 18 Oct 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Join us as we dive into strategies for navigating hurricanes and other natural disasters with autistic children. We’ll share tips on preparing ahead, creating safety, managing sensory overload, and returning to routine, while revealing how we create a sense of adventure to bring comfort and joy during the storm.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Guy Stephens

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 11 Oct 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today we chat with Guy Stephens! Guy is a passionate advocate and nationally recognized expert on restraint and seclusion. In 2019, he founded the Alliance Against Seclusion and Restraint (AASR), a respected nonprofit aimed at reforming policies and practices to eliminate punitive discipline and the school-to-prison pipeline. Guy promotes trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming approaches and has spoken at numerous conferences and educational courses across North America. He also serves on the boards of The Arc of Maryland and PDA North America. Guy is committed to creating inclusive, safe environments by embracing neurodiversity and neuroscience to ensure equal rights for all.

Follow Guy's work at AASR at: Facebook, TikTok, X and YouTube @endseclusion and Instagram @endseclusionorg

Visit the AASR website at: www.endseclusion.org

EP 754 – School Without Limits

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 04 Oct 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Join us as we discuss the pros and cons of homeschooling an autistic child. We’ll cover the benefits of personalized learning, socialization challenges, and tips for creating routines and incorporating therapies to help you decide if homeschooling is right for your family.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Cuyler Romeo

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 27 Sep 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today we’re sitting down with Occupational Therapist and Pediatric Feeding Specialist Cuyler Romeo. Her extensive leadership and clinical experience are instrumental in the execution and management of Feeding Matters’ strategic initiatives. In partnership with the CEO, Jaclyn Pederson, Cuyler collaborates with constituents to identify, track, and assess innovative approaches to the PFD system of care. Cuyler also facilitates strategic partnerships with select professional associations including the American Occupational Therapy Association (AOTA). She is currently a treating clinician in Banner-University Medical Center’s NICU and works to advance the feeding skill domain by facilitating AOTA’s mealtime Occupations: Feeding, Eating, and Swallowing Community of Practice.

Follow Cuyler and FeedingMatters on Instagram and Facebook @FeedingMatters or visit the website at www.feedingmatters.org

Take this quiz to determine if your child's feeding has any areas of concern: https://questionnaire.feedingmatters.org

EP 753 – #ApalacheeStrong

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 20 Sep 2024 04:01:00 +0000

On Sept. 4th a gunman who shall not be named entered Apalachee High School and ended the lives of 4 people in our community, two 14 year old students and 2 teachers. One of the two students, whose name was Mason, was autistic. Today we will discuss the incident that has put our community in national headlines and how we are processing the impact it has had on our children and the autism community. Due to the nature of the topic being discussed, this episode may not be appropriate for children.

Support Mason's Family: https://tinyurl.com/apalacheestrong

EP 752 – Managing Hyper-Empathy

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 13 Sep 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today we discuss hyper-empathy in autism—a condition where individuals feel others' emotions intensely, making it challenging to regulate their own feelings. We’ll explore what hyper-empathy looks like, its potential causes, its impact on daily life, and provide practical tips for managing it.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Meg Raby Klinghoffer

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 06 Sep 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today’s special guest is Meg Raby Klinghoffer, an autistic writer and author of the beloved My Brother Otto series. As a speech-language pathologist at KultureCity, Meg is at the forefront of their latest innovation, Koji—a free AI tool designed to empower nonspeakers and minimally speaking individuals. Join us as Meg shares insights about Koji and her mission to create inclusive communities where everyone feels seen and connected.

Follow KultureCity on Facebook & Instagram @KultureCity and X @KultureC

Visit their website www.kulturecity.org

Follow Meg on Instagram @author.meg.raby

EP 751 – Playful Confidence

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 30 Aug 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Join us as we share our children’s experience with Play Therapy and how these approaches are helping our girls manage anxiety, particularly around performance and fear of failure. We also discuss how Autplay, an autism-tailored play therapy, is teaching them new skills to help express emotions and build confidence.

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EP 750- When the Truth Hurts: Tactful Honesty

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 23 Aug 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today we explore how to help your autistic child use their natural honesty more tactfully, turning their bluntness into a strength without causing social conflict. We discuss practical strategies to help your child express themselves while considering others' feelings. Tune in for tips on nurturing their honesty while fostering empathy and social awareness.

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EP 749 – Autistic Vulnerability

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 16 Aug 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Tune in as we tackle the topic of autistic vulnerability, focusing on the challenges of social communication and how they can lead to bullying, harassment, social isolation, and even job loss. We'll discuss practical strategies for parents to support their children and safeguard their well-being.

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EP 748 – Milestone: 100,000+ Listeners Q&A Celebration!

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 09 Aug 2024 04:01:00 +0000

In this special milestone episode, we are thrilled to celebrate reaching 100,000 listeners! To mark this momentous occasion, we are dedicating this episode to you, our amazing audience, with a Q&A session. We’ll be answering your most burning questions about parenting autistic children, sharing personal insights, and reflecting on the journey so far. Thank you for being part of the Embracing Autism community!

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Dr. Vladimir Barayev

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 02 Aug 2024 04:01:00 +0000

In today's episode, we sit down with Dr. Vladimir Barayev, a board-certified pediatrician and autism specialist, to discuss the importance of good sleep habits for autistic children. Dr. Vlad, who runs a holistic pediatric practice in Staten Island, New York, will share insights on common sleep issues and effective strategies for improving sleep. Join us as we explore practical advice to enhance the well-being of autistic children through better sleep routines.

Follow Dr. Vlad on Facebook & YouTube @barayevpeds and visit his website at www.thebdpc.com for more information.

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EP 747 – School’s In Session!

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 26 Jul 2024 04:01:00 +0000

As the new school year approaches, we’ll share advice and practical strategies to help parents prepare their autistic children for a successful return to school. By fostering a supportive environment and implementing effective preparation techniques, you can make the transition smoother for your child. Support our mission, Become a Member: patreon.com/autismwish

EP 746 – Too Many Choices: Decision Fatigue

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 19 Jul 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today we’ll explore how decision fatigue uniquely affects individuals with autism. We’ll show you how to identify signs, understand its impact, and discover practical strategies for managing daily choices.

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EP 745 – Prime Time: Autism Amazon Finds

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 12 Jul 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Amazon’s yearly Prime event is around the corner and we have some great suggestions on what we’ve personally used that has helped our girls with sensory regulation, elopement, transitions and more.

Items discussed in this episode can be found below (we may earn a small commission on purchases made from these links at no additional cost to you):

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EP 744 – Fight Night: Sibling Rivalry

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 05 Jul 2024 04:01:00 +0000

We dive into the ups and downs of sibling rivalry when both kids are on the autism spectrum. We'll chat about how to help them understand each other, deal with jealousy, and break through communication barriers.

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EP 743 – Stranger Danger

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 28 Jun 2024 04:01:00 +0000

An inability to judge social situations often accompanies autism. Unfortunately, this can result in our children making poor choices when it comes to strangers. Today we dive into the topic of Stranger Danger, how we have seen it manifest in our children, and some ideas on tackling it.

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EP 742 – Superpower or Super Myth?

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 21 Jun 2024 04:01:00 +0000

You've heard it said before, Autism is a superpower! But is it really? Today we'll chat about the well-meaning but potentially harmful notion of Autism being viewed as a superpower and why this opinion may vary among autistic individuals.

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EP 741 – The Harm of “High Functioning”

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 14 Jun 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today we discuss the unique challenges faced by those of us diagnosed with high-functioning or level 1 autism and why it's problematic to perceive this category of individuals as requiring fewer supports than are actually needed.

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EP 740 – Murphy’s Law

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 07 Jun 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Does it feel sometimes like everything is going wrong and at the worst possible moment? Today we discuss how parenting an autistic child can lower your mental and emotional threshold for dealing with hard times, what this looks like in our family, and how we continue learning healthier ways to manage the stress.

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EP 739 – Bittersweet

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 31 May 2024 04:01:00 +0000

It's that time again when our kids are graduating, extracurriculars are wrapping up, and it seems as though everything is reminding you of what progress (or lack thereof) your child has made over the past year. Today we discuss the highs and lows of end-of-school-year celebrations, how grief can often sneak up on you unexpectedly, and the importance of embracing beauty in the unconventional.

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EP 738 – The Blame Game

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 24 May 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Is it just us, or are parents of autistic kiddos constantly blamed for their child's diagnosis? From the refrigerator mom theory to the helicopter parent theory, we can't even tell you how many times we've heard accusations hurled towards parents blaming them for their child's autism diagnosis. Are they all bogus? How should we respond? We'll dive into this and more in today's episode.

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EP 737 – Summer Livin’

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 17 May 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Summer is just around the corner and we are so ready! Are you? Today we discuss how we prepare for summer and the complications it can bring such as a disruption of routine, learning loss, behavioral challenges, and more. We also share how taking certain precautionary steps can help create a smoother summer transition.

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EP 736 – Birthday Bash or Blunder?

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 10 May 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Birthdays can be tricky to navigate with autistic kiddos. From sensory overload, to sudden changes in routine, these celebrations often result in meltdowns and overwhelm. Today we'll chat about how we create an autism-conscious birthday experience for our girls and share our tips on how to reduce the overwhelm and enhance the fun.

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EP 735 – Bringing Baby Home

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 03 May 2024 04:01:00 +0000

She's here! We're dedicating this episode to a family update as we share our experience welcoming our newest member of the McCabe clan, how our girls reacted, and what we have done to help with the transition.

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EP 734 – Empathy In Action: Navigating Autism Allyship

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 26 Apr 2024 04:01:00 +0000

As parents of autistic children and as autistic individuals, we are often faced with additional stressors, challenges, and overwhelming circumstances while lacking support and resources to navigate them. Today we will discuss the importance of empathy in action, and what it means to be an autism ally. This episode aims to provide those outside of the autism community an inside glimpse and 'how-to' guideon what you can do to make it easier on autistic individuals and their parents this autism acceptance month-- and year round.

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EP 733 – Autism Acceptance Month: The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 12 Apr 2024 04:01:00 +0000

It's April and you know what that means, it's officially Autism Acceptance Month! This time of year is intended to spread awareness and acceptance of autism spectrum disorder while organizations like AutismWish work hard towards fundraising and charitable missions, but it's not all sunshine and roses. Today we chat about the good, the bad, and the ugly surrounding this time of year and share our thoughts on the current social discussions.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Dani Bowman

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 05 Apr 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today, we have the pleasure of speaking with Dani Bowman, best known for her starring role in the docuseries "Love on the Spectrum, US". Dani is a young and talented animator, artist, and entrepreneur on the Autism Spectrum who is passionate about using her skills to help others and dedicated to inclusion and diversity. Despite being diagnosed with autism at age 3 and nonverbal until 6, Dani has overcome these challenges to become an accomplished artist, animator, mentor and inspiring speaker. Today she shares her story as well as tips and advice for parents raising autistic children.

Where to find Dani: https://linktr.ee/DaniMationENT

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EP 732 – Digital Dilemma: Screen Smart Parenting

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 29 Mar 2024 04:01:00 +0000

In this episode, we explore valuable insights and tips for navigating screen time in the context of autism. We discuss the potential benefits, such as skill development and communication support, as well as the challenges, including sensory overload and addiction risks. Join us as we share practical strategies for striking a healthy balance and maximizing the positive impact of screen time on autistic children's development and well-being.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Ron Sandison

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 22 Mar 2024 04:01:00 +0000

Today we welcome Ron Sandison. Ron works full time in the medical field and is a professor of theology at Destiny School of Ministry. Sandison has a Master of Divinity from Oral Roberts University and is the author of "A Parent’s Guide to Autism: Practical Advice, Biblical Wisdom". Join us as we discuss the intersection of faith, autism, and personal identity as well as the importance of inclusion and acceptance of autism within religious communities.

You can Follow Ron on the following: Website: https://www.spectruminclusion.com/ Facebook: @SpectrumRonSandison TikTok: @TheAutisticHoneyBadger

EP 731 – The Trust Challenge

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 15 Mar 2024 04:01:00 +0000

One of the biggest challenges we have faced as parents of autistic children is finding people we trust to care for them when we cannot. Whether it be a medical emergency, a sleepover, or a simple date night, it's hard to trust others with the care of our children. Today we will share how this impacts our family and things to consider when deciding whether or not someone is trustworthy.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Dr. Temple Grandin

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 08 Mar 2024 05:01:00 +0000

Dr. Temple Grandin is an acclaimed animal behaviorist and animal science professor at Colorado State University. She is the subject of the 2010 film, Temple Grandin, which focuses on her start in animal agriculture. Dr. Grandin has become a prominent author and speaker both on autism and animal behavior. Diagnosed with autism as a child, Dr. Grandin credits her mother and mentors for helping her overcome her difficulties and pursue her interests. Today we discuss the importance of early intervention, developing independence and social skills, teachable moments, self-regulation techniques, inclusive learning environments and more!

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You can find Temple at www.templegrandin.com

EP 730 – The Impact of Peer Rejection & Bullying

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 01 Mar 2024 05:01:00 +0000

It's time for a hard reality check. Our kids get bullied and rejected by their peers - often. As a parent, it hurts to see your child treated poorly and we can get caught up in the 'what do I do?' spiral. Due to their autism, our girls can't always tell when they're being bullied, but they sure can tell when they're being pushed away. Today we'll talk about the truth behind the impact of peer rejection and bullying of autistic children.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Heather Chauvin

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 05:01:00 +0000

Heather Chauvin is a parent of neurodivergent children and leadership coach who helps ambitious, overwhelmed women break free from their fears to courageously and authentically live, work, and parent on their own terms. Today she shares her expertise on tackling lack of parenting confidence, specific strategies to gain self-trust, managing energy during parental burnout, self-care, emotional regulation tips and more!

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You can find Heather at:

IG - heatherchauvin_

Freebies - https://heatherchauvin.com/freegifts

EP 729 – You Can’t Hurry Love

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 16 Feb 2024 05:01:00 +0000

Join us as we dive into a topic close to many parents' hearts: the journey of hearing those precious words, "I Love You," from our kids and what happens when that moment doesn't quite happen as expected? We're here to share our experiences of exploring love languages with our girls and how we've learned to give and receive love in different ways.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Kelley Coleman

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 09 Feb 2024 05:01:00 +0000

Today we sit down with Author and Advocate, Kelley Coleman, to discuss the ins and outs on filing autism related paperwork, navigating therapies, understanding insurance, government benefits, advocating for your child in school, financial planning and more! Kelley Coleman is a feature film development executive turned author and advocate for parent caregivers and individuals with disabilities. You can find Kelley on the following social media platforms:

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EP 728 – Good News, Or Baby Blues?

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 02 Feb 2024 05:01:00 +0000

Embark on a thoughtful journey with us as we discuss the complex choice of expanding a family after raising two autistic children. In this episode, we navigate the intricacies of parenting within the spectrum, exploring both the joys and challenges that come with adding another member to the fold. From fostering sibling bonds to managing the increased demands, we weigh the pros and cons, offering a candid exploration of the unique dynamics that shape the decision to grow a family amidst the diverse landscape of autism. Show your support and become a member today patreon.com/autismwish

Bonus Episode – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Sara Bradford

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 26 Jan 2024 05:01:00 +0000

Today we bring to you a fellow autism advocate and CEO of autism consulting business SJ Childs LLC, Sara Bradford. We'll touch on subjects including the challenges of parenting an autistic child and what you can do to create a closer connection. Sara is an autistic adult with a goal to support autism impacted families. She is also a member of the Autism Council of Utah and the owner of the Autism Advocate Support Group on Facebook. Sara is a mother of two, with both her husband and kids on the autism spectrum. You can follow Sara on Facebook, Instagram and more here: https://linkfly.to/30124nzS2q5 You can also visit her website at https://www.sjchilds.org for more resources and access to her podcast!

EP 727 – What It Means To Be #ActuallyInclusive

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 19 Jan 2024 05:01:00 +0000

This one's gonna be a doozy! Join us as we dive into the controversial world of what it means to be #ActuallyInclusive in the autistic community. Is it okay to like the puzzle piece symbol? How should we respond with those who disagree with our views? And why is it so hard to get along? Today, we'll revisit the debate and share new insights. Join the after-show discussion by becoming a member of the Embracing Autism Community today at patreon.com/autismwish.

EP 726 – We’re Back: Revelations & Resilience

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 12 Jan 2024 05:01:00 +0000

After a several month hiatus, we're ready to share our story. We'll dive into what's been going on with our family, future plans, and exciting AutismWish updates. We'd love to hear from you, so feel free to share your family updates with us by commenting on youtube.com/@autismwish or chatting with us directly in our exclusive Embracing Autism Community by becoming a member today! Become a Member: patreon.com/autismwish

We Have a Family Announcement

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 11:40:49 +0000

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Sasha Long

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 01 Sep 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Sasha Long, BCBA, M.A., is the founder and president of The Autism Helper, Inc. She is a board certified behavior analyst and former special education teacher. In Today's episode, Sasha shares strategies and best practices for parents tackling challenging IEP discussions at school, executive dysfunction accommodations, easing back to school transitions, and more!

You can follow Sasha Long on social media @theautismhelper (facebook, instagram, tiktok, threads). You can also visit her website at www.theautismhelpernetwork.com for more resources and freebies!

Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Eileen Lamb

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 25 Aug 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Is Autism Speaks a hate group? Should autistics and autism allies embrace or turn away from the organization? Today I have with me a name that should be very familiar to you all, Eileen Lamb. Eileen is the author of "All Across The Spectrum" and “Be The One,” and is well-known as the founder of The Autism Cafe, an autism advocacy blog. She’s also a writer, photographer, and host of the Autism Speaks Podcast—Adulting on the Spectrum. Born in France, Eileen now lives in Austin, Texas, with her two sons, Charlie, Jude, and their baby sister, Billie. On her blog, she shares the ups and downs of raising a severely autistic child while being on the autism spectrum herself. We discuss Autism Speaks from an autistic perspective and address the most notable controversies surrounding the organization.

You can follow Eileen at @theautismcafe on Instagram and Facebook as well as @eileen.lamb on TikTok

EP 725 – Hope Through Humor

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 18 Aug 2023 04:01:00 +0000

It's tough being a parent, even tougher when your child is autistic. But we have learned through the last years that it's often better to laugh than cry or scream. Today we will share how our sense of humor has been the saving grace in our marriage and parenting journeys and why we encourage other parents to embrace the funny side of things to help restore your hope.

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EP 724 – Back To School

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 11 Aug 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Our kids are heading back to school for the second year. This time, we're prepared and sharing our best tips and resources to help your autistic child start school on the right foot!

Join our private Embracing Autism Community on Guilded.gg and support our charitable programs by Becoming a Member at Autismwish.org today! For as little as $5 a month, your membership will grant you exclusive access to behind-the-scenes content, voice-only and video chat rooms, a book club, and direct access to Lia & Matt with the added bonus of supporting our mission and advocacy work!

EP 723 – Under the Sea

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 04 Aug 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Community outings can often seem impossible to manage with an autistic child, but sometimes the key to success can really be quite simple. Today we will chat about our experience at the Georgia Aquarium and why visiting a Certified Autism Center can make all the difference in a successful outing.

Join our private Embracing Autism Community on Guilded.gg and support our charitable programs by Becoming a Member at Autismwish.org today! For as little as $5 a month, your membership will grant you exclusive access to behind-the-scenes content, text, voice-only, and video chat rooms, a book club, autism resources/freebies, printables, and direct access to Lia & Matt with the added bonus of supporting our mission and advocacy work!

Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Dr. Rick Solomon

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 28 Jul 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Seeking a more child-centered approach to therapy for your autistic child? Today we sit down with Dr. Rick Solomon, Founder of The PLAY Project, an evidence-based intervention complementary to ABA, with a parent-implemented autism intervention model, and take a closer look at this innovative therapy. Over the last 25 years, Dr. Rick has served as the Medical Director of The Ann Arbor Center for Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics. His book, Autism: The Potential Within, describes his clinical approach to helping young autistic children.

You can follow Dr. Rick on social media:

Facebook & Instagram @PLAYprojectASD

LinkedIn @richard-solomon-6a4a006

Free Resources available on his website: www.theplayproject.org

Our listeners also get 25% off of Dr. Rick's book, Autism The Potential Within with coupon code 25OFF Listeners can also take advantage of a discount for his upcoming August 2023 Intensive Workshop Online for $195 with code IWOParent

EP 722 – Just Keep Swimming

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 21 Jul 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Did you know that drowning is the leading cause of death for autistic children? Today we will chat about the importance of water safety for autistic individuals and share our experience with special needs swimming lessons with our girls.

Join our private Embracing Autism Community and support our charitable programs by Becoming a Member at Autismwish.org today! For as little as $5 a month, your membership will grant you exclusive access to behind-the-scenes content, voice-only and video chat rooms, a book club, direct access to Lia & Matt, and more with the added bonus of supporting our mission and advocacy work!

EP 721 – Movie Mayhem

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 14 Jul 2023 04:01:00 +0000

When was the last time you went out to the movies as a family? Today we will share how we were able to share the movie magic of Super Mario Bros with our girls, the hiccups along the way, and what we did to ensure a positive outcome.

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EP 720 – We Try the 4th of July

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 07 Jul 2023 04:01:00 +0000

The 4th of July is one of the biggest celebrations in the United States, unfortunately, it's often marked by loud and bright fireworks displays, large crowds, and booming music. This year marks our family's first attempt to view fireworks, join us as we share tips on how to create an autism-friendly celebration.

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EP 719 – Aggression & Violent Outbursts

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 30 Jun 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Aggression in autistic children is often the most reported challenge by parents. Today we will dive into our experiences with aggression and violent outbursts, illustrate how we decode the reason behind them, and explain how we have both succeeded and failed in addressing these behaviors.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Matt McCabe

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 23 Jun 2023 04:01:00 +0000

This one's for the dads! We don't often hear about fathers of autistic children, so this Father's Day we're honoring you by highlighting the "Autism Dad" experience. In this intimate 1-on-1 conversation, Matt will share his personal struggles, gains, and lessons learned along his journey as a father to autistic children (and husband to an autistic wife).

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EP 718 – Regressions: 1 Step Forward, 2 Steps Back

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 16 Jun 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Regression, or the loss of a skill previously acquired, is a common characteristic of autism. From potty training to PICA - today will share our family's struggles with regressions and what steps we are taking to help our girls continue to make progress.

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EP 717 – Special Interests Vs. Hobbies

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 09 Jun 2023 13:59:39 +0000

Individuals on the autism spectrum tend to have a particularly strong affinity toward certain items, shows, movies, activities, etc. This is often referred to as an autistic "special interest", but what makes a special interest different than a neurotypical hobby? Today we will discuss this difference and shed light on why these interests may bring your child intense joy.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Dawn M. Barclay

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 02 Jun 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Tune in as we sit down with Dawn M. Barclay, an award-winning author who has spent a career working in different aspects of the travel industry. Her book, "Traveling Different: Vacation Strategies for Parents of the Anxious, the Inflexible, and the Neurodiverse" tackles the challenges parents of autistic and neurodivergent children face when going on short trips and vacations. Join us as we discuss how to create an autism-friendly and stress-free travel experience.

EP 716 – Having a Field Day

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 26 May 2023 04:01:00 +0000

It's that time of year again when schools start to wrap up with exciting end-of-year celebrations, bouncy houses, snow cones, and games galore! It'll be fun, right? As parents of autistic children, something as simple as a Field Day can quickly turn dangerous or even life-threatening. Tune in this Friday as we share our experience with Family Field Day at our girls' school, what dangers to look out for, and what you can do to prevent them.

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EP 715 – Parenting Through Chaos

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 19 May 2023 04:01:00 +0000

We talk about autism A LOT, but the truth of the matter is - most of us are dealing with other pressures, stressors, and relationship conflicts that often enhance an already challenging situation. Today we discuss what some of these challenges have been for our family and share the lessons we've learned along the way.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Laura Hales

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 12 May 2023 04:01:00 +0000

In today's episode, we discuss how to advocate for your child in school, important 'buzzwords' you should know, your child's rights, and what parents can do to make sure their voices are heard during those critical IEP meetings.

Laura Hales is a Mother of two autistic children, autism advocate, and author who recently began writing true stories about her autistic children. She was inspired to promote autism acceptance when she discovered the current literature available was severely lacking. Laura’s mission is to create a more inclusive world for her sons and neurodivergent children like him.

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EP 714 – 100th Episode Celebration

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 05 May 2023 04:01:00 +0000

We made it to our 100th episode of the Embracing Autism Podcast! Today we will share reflections on our journey thus far and what we've learned along the way. We will also be sharing our favorite listener reviews and emails we've received.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Kate Swenson

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 28 Apr 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Kate Swenson, the founder of Finding Cooper's Voice and nonprofit, The More Than Project, is a mother, a wife, and a proud Minnesotan. She writes and creates videos regularly about her life as a mother and an autism advocate for Facebook, Instagram, and her website, Finding Cooper's Voice. Her book, Forever Boy, A Mother's Memoir of Autism and Finding Joy, is available now and highlights the transformation that she went through after her son's diagnosis. Note: As this is a pre-recorded episode, the book give-away mentioned has since ended.

EP 713 – Stopping the Stigma

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 21 Apr 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Oftentimes autistic individuals and their family members face blame, shame, and rejection typically from those who are misinformed about the nature of Autism. Today we focus on how to spot the stigma and the importance of stopping it.

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EP 712 – A “Little” On The Spectrum

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 14 Apr 2023 04:01:00 +0000

"Aren't we all a little on the spectrum?" I'm sure you've heard it said before! Today we touch on what it means to be autistic and how dismissive it can be to claim that everyone is "a little autistic". We'll also make suggestions on alternative ways to state your support!

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EP 711 – Curing Autism: Understanding the Debate

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 07 Apr 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Is there a cure for Autism, and if so, should there be? Today we discuss the ethical and moral questions surrounding the topic of "curing" Autism. We also share personal and community insights from this ongoing debate.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Lulu Mahne

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 31 Mar 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Why do some autistic children struggle with severe behavioral challenges? What does the brain have to do with it and can anything be done? Today we sit down with Lulu Mahne, an autistic adult whose dangerous and aggressive outbursts as a child led him to learn more about his neurology, and ultimately revealed the surprising cause to his troubling behavior.

EP 710 – Ask Us Anything!

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 24 Mar 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Join us as for a special AMA (Ask Me Anything - or rather Ask "Us" Anything) session where we answer your questions! Questions were submitted in advance via email at podcast@autismwish.org and during a livestream that aired on March 17, 2023.

EP 709 – Co-regulating Through Meltdowns

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 17 Mar 2023 04:01:00 +0000

Have you struggled with addressing your child's meltdowns? Does it feel like none of the typical techniques are working? Today we discuss how co-regulation may be the key to success and why using this method has brought us closer to our girls.

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EP 708 – Accommodating Medical & Dental Anxiety

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 10 Mar 2023 05:01:00 +0000

Does your child meltdown at the slight mention of a doctor's appointment? Today we will discuss implications of medical and dental phobias commonly associated with autism. We will chat about our children's most recent dental appointment and how incorporating some techniques helped us create a smoother experience for everyone.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Anthony Galati

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 03 Mar 2023 05:01:00 +0000

Today we dive into the many benefits that art expression can bring to autistic children and parents alike as we sit down with fine artist, and art instructor Anthony Galati. Anthony shares years of experience working with special needs students and the neurodiverse community, including respite work, regular volunteerism at a special education school, and meaningful relationships with special needs members of his community.

EP 707 – Social Gamification

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 24 Feb 2023 05:01:00 +0000

Did you know video games can help your child learn social skills? Join us as we chat about how gamifying social interactions can help your child better engage with their peers while also providing them with safe testing grounds to better hone their skills.

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EP 706 – Social Anxiety & Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 17 Feb 2023 05:01:00 +0000

Autistic individuals often struggle with social anxiety due to a variety of compounding factors. Today we will share an autistic perspective on why this happens, how your child may be feeling during these moments, and what you can do to help.

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EP 705 – Beyond The Label

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 10 Feb 2023 05:01:00 +0000

Should a child be identified primarily by their autism? Today we discuss the topic of identity as it relates to autism, and the potential impact of boxing our children into a label.

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Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Dr. Kristin Wegner

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 03 Feb 2023 05:01:00 +0000

Dr. Wegner is the Neurodivergent author of the Brody The Lion Children’s Book Series. She holds a Master’s Degree in Early Childhood Special Education, a PhD in Clinical Psychology and has worked with special needs kids for over 30 years. Join us as we discuss autism red flags, beating the waitlist, autism acceptance, the pros and cons of ABA and much more!

Listeners can also take advantage of the special discount code BRODYSBUDDIES to get 10% off at www.brodythelion.com

EP 704 – Failure to Thrive

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 27 Jan 2023 05:01:00 +0000

Tune in as we get personal and share our family's struggles with the public education system, thoughts on how the current system often fails the special needs community, and how we plan to tackle it.

This episode is sponsored by The Exceptional Learning Institute (E.L.I.), learn more about their customized academic programs for autistic children at exceptionalinstitute.org.

EP 703 – The Mind-Body Disconnect

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 20 Jan 2023 05:01:00 +0000

Join us as we talk about interoception and how the mind-body signals get disrupted in autistics. We chat about how this disconnect can result in bathroom accidents, fecal smearing, as well as poor awareness of sickness, hunger, thirst, emotional states, and beyond.

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EP 702 – Too Late To Apologize

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 13 Jan 2023 06:00:00 +0000

Why is apologizing so difficult for autistics? Today we talk about the challenges autistic children (and adults) face when asked to say "I'm Sorry", how inappropriately labeling your child as "proud" may do more harm than good, and what alternatives you can use for a successful apology.

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EP 701 – Our Year In Review

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 06 Jan 2023 06:00:00 +0000

Today Lia goes solo as Matt recovers from Covid-19 and chats about Our Year in Review for 2022 and goals for 2023!

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EP 700 – Seasons of Change

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 30 Dec 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Join us as we discuss how the Embracing Autism Podcast is evolving in the new year.

Bonus EP – Transforming Christmas

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 23 Dec 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Join us as we chat about how to provide your child with an autism-friendly holiday and lessons we've learned from past Christmases.

Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Thomas A. McKean

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 16 Dec 2022 13:46:30 +0000

Today we sit down with Thomas A. McKean. Thomas is an autistic adult and co-creator of Autism Awareness month and the current autism puzzle piece awareness ribbon. We discuss the official meaning behind the puzzle piece ribbon, thoughts on autism self-diagnosis, and challenges the autism community (including parents) currently face.

Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Nate Hallquist

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 09 Dec 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Self-Diagnosis is often debated in the autism community. Today we speak with Nate Hallquist a budding neurodivergent advocate. Nate has gone through a journey of self-discovery, recently learning that he is both ADHD and Autistic. As part of this process, he is learning about the barriers to receiving an Autism diagnosis. Join us today to learn more about his experience of self-discovery thus far and why he supports self-diagnosis of Autism.

Season 7 Trailer: Seasons of Change

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 02 Dec 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Our goal has always been to provide parents of autistic children with value, whether that be support, information, a few minutes of comic relief, or a familiar comforting voice. As caregivers, our needs can change over time, so we are committed to evolving the podcast to meet those needs. We have received a lot of feedback from our listeners, and we hear you loud and clear! Changes are coming.

Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Adelle Starin

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 25 Nov 2022 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of Embracing Autism IRL, we sit down with Adelle Starin, Owner of Baby’s on Broadway – a Durable Medical Equipment (DME) Center providing parents of autistic children with pediatric ambulatory devices, the Wonderfold Wagons. Join us as Adelle answers all our questions on how to apply for a medically necessary wagon through your insurance provider as well as alternative options if your request is denied. To watch this video interview and others like it, subscribe to youtube.com/@AutismWish.

EP 610 – Finding Neverland

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 18 Nov 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Many autistic children become attached to so-called “childish interests” that remain in adulthood and are often stigmatized for them. We explore these interests and share why it’s okay to embrace one’s inner child.

EP 609 – Battling Sleep

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Today we touch on the surprising relationship between sleep and autism and discuss why your child may be struggling to fall or stay asleep at night and how to help them get some rest.

EP 608 – Building Career Pathways

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Today we discuss the unique challenges autistic individuals face within the workforce and education system. We share insights as to what your child may experience as well as what they can do to make this transition easier.

EP 607 – Masking Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 28 Oct 2022 09:00:00 +0000

We peer behind the mask and explore what it means to disguise one’s authentic self and discuss how masking can negatively impact your autistic child.

EP 606 – Saying What You Mean

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Today we tackle the topic of autistic communication, how challenges in this area can cause miscommunications or misperceptions, and what you as a parent can do to ease the frustration for your child.

EP 605 – Preventing Sensory Overload

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 14 Oct 2022 09:00:00 +0000

What exactly is a sensory diet and how can it help prevent sensory overload? Tune in as we share how to meet your child’s sensory needs through this stress-reducing technique. [Use bonus promo code AutismWish15 for 15% off of sensory merch at Lakikid.com]

EP 604 – Affirming Stimming

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 09:00:00 +0000

What exactly is stimming? What does it feel like to stim? And how does stimming impact my autistic child? Join us as we define stimming and share insights on its benefits and disadvantages from an autistic perspective.

EP 603 – Sensing Chaos

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 30 Sep 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Do you ever wonder how your autistic child may sense the world? Today, we discuss what it feels like to experience sensory overload and how the sensory system differs for our children from an autistic perspective.

EP 602 – Thinking in Black & White

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 23 Sep 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Autism is often associated with literal or black-and-white thinking. Today we discuss examples of this kind of thinking from an autistic perspective and how to communicate more effectively with your literal thinking child.

EP 601 – Discovering Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 16 Sep 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Do you see a lot of yourself in your autistic child? Today we detail where to go if you suspect you or your spouse may be autistic and what to expect in the diagnostic process.

Season 6 Trailer: Life on the Spectrum

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 09 Sep 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Tune in for a sneak peek of Season 6 as we share what you can expect from next season's theme.

Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Andrew Komarow

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 02 Sep 2022 09:00:00 +0000

We share audio from our third episode of the Embracing Autism IRL video series where we sit down with Andrew Komarow, Autistic Certified Financial Planner (CFP), and founder of Planning Across the Spectrum. In this episode, we chat about the importance of Financial independence for individuals with disabilities and how to address the controversy in the autism community.

EP 510 – Unmasking Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 26 Aug 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Join us as we wrap up season 5 and discuss our family’s most recent and shocking autism development.

EP 509 – Overcoming Guilt

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 19 Aug 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Tune into the conversation as we talk about the very real guilt many parents feel when we first receive our child’s autism diagnosis.

EP 508 – Keeping Your Cool

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 12 Aug 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Join us as we talk about the frustration we experience as parents when others deny our child’s autism diagnosis and assume it is misbehavior.

EP 507 – Defying Bullies

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 05 Aug 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Join us as we discuss the hostility towards parents of autistic children from the online autism community and how we can continue embracing autism without losing ourselves in the process.

EP 506 – Enduring Rejection

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 29 Jul 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Today we reflect on the social rejection and isolation autistic children face, which often accompanies them into adulthood.

EP 505 – Planning Ahead

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 22 Jul 2022 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we discuss the challenging topic of what happens to our children after we’re gone and how we can best prepare.

EP 504 – Reclaiming Disability

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 15 Jul 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Today we look into the debate over the use of the term “disability” to refer to autism and whether or not it's considered appropriate.

EP 503 – Loving Thy Neighbor

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 08 Jul 2022 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we reflect on the challenges of seeking an autism-inclusive Church and discuss how to advocate for simple changes at free or low-cost to your place of worship.

EP 502 – Burning Out

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 01 Jul 2022 09:00:00 +0000

We chat about caregiver burnout and how to recognize the signs.

EP 501 – Coping With Judgment

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 24 Jun 2022 09:00:00 +0000

We delve into the challenging topic of judgment and shame, both as parents of autistic children but also from the perspective of growing up neurodivergent.

Ep 500 – Season 5 Trailer: Wounds to Heal

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 17 Jun 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Welcome to Season 5! This trailer introduces the theme of "Wounds to Heal" and highlights a few topics to be covered this season. Season 5 premiers Friday, June 24th, 2022, on your favorite podcasting platforms.

Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Kate Sallade

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 10 Jun 2022 09:00:00 +0000

We bring you the audio from another episode of our new video series, Embracing Autism IRL. In this episode, we meet with Kate Sallade, an Autistic adult, ABA practitioner, and the owner of Behavioral Foundation Centers to discuss her unique perspective on this controversial topic. Video available on YouTube by searching the key term "Embracing Autism IRL Kate Sallade".

EP 410 – Debating Profound Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 03 Jun 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Join us as we discuss the debate surrounding the proposed designation of the term “Profound Autism” in the DSM and its potential impact on the autistic community.

EP 409 – Revisiting ABA

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 27 May 2022 09:00:00 +0000

We re-examine ABA therapy and the diversity of the autistic perspective.

EP 408 – Dispelling Disinformation

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 20 May 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Tune in as we chat about the difference between disinformation and misinformation in the autism world and why intent matters.

EP 407 – Creating Community

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 13 May 2022 09:00:00 +0000

We explore the role of community and how to approach autism with your neighbors.

EP 406 – Becoming Self-Aware

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 06 May 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Join us today as we touch on the topic of parental self-awareness and how it may impact our children.

EP 405 – Potty Training

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 29 Apr 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Today we talk about potty training an autistic child and how we suddenly found success after a year plus of trying.

EP 404 – Fathering Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 22 Apr 2022 09:00:00 +0000

In today’s episode, we discuss the role of dads in autism and why they tend to be less vocal in the autism community.

EP 403 – Making Friends

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 15 Apr 2022 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we speak on the struggles of making friends as parents of autistic children as well as the unique challenges our kids face when building friendships.

EP 402 – Prepping For School

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 08 Apr 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Tune in as we discuss prepping our kids for school, IEPs, and transitions. We answer questions such as, how can I make the transition to school easier for my autistic child? What are some things I should advocate for in my child’s IEP? And how can I help my child’s teacher see them as more than a diagnosis?

EP 401 – Becoming The Change

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 01 Apr 2022 09:00:00 +0000

In the Season 4 premier, we discuss the importance of advocacy in the autism community and practical steps you can take as a parent to help create a more autism inclusive world for your child.

EP 400 – Season 4 Trailer: Work To Be Done

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 09:00:00 +0000

Season 4: Work To Be Done launches Friday, April 1, 2022, everywhere you stream podcasts! Keep yourself up to date with all things Embracing Autism by following us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram @AutismWish to stay up-to-date with live events, giveaways, monthly support group access, and more! Want to show your support? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and drop us a voice message at speakepipe.com/embracingautism.

Bonus EP – Embracing Autism IRL – Meet Samar Waqar

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 18 Mar 2022 09:00:00 +0000

We are excited to share with you audio from the premiering episode of the Embracing Autism IRL (in real life) spinoff companion. In this video series, we interview guests from a variety of backgrounds who are all linked together through Autism discussing controversial yet critical topics in the autism community. In today’s episode, we interview Samar Waqar, Founder of Kind Theory on the topic of neurodiversity and autism acceptance.

EP 310 – Disclosing the Diagnosis

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 11 Mar 2022 10:00:00 +0000

In the Hearth & Home season three finale, we chat about how to determine if or when it’s the appropriate time to disclose your child’s autism diagnosis as well as with whom that information should and should not be shared.

EP 309 – Going to Church

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 04 Mar 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Today we touch on how to navigate formal settings with your autistic child, such as going to church, attending weddings, and beyond.

EP 308 – Making Memories

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 25 Feb 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Join us as we discuss the power of making memories as a family and why we as parents should remember that there’s more to life than autism.

EP 307 – Remembering Self Care

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 18 Feb 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We discuss why self-care should not be neglected and how making time for yourself can ultimately have a positive impact on your autistic child.

EP 306 – Expanding Your Family

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 11 Feb 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Today we will chat about expanding your family after an autism diagnosis and help you weigh the pros and cons.

EP 305 – Embracing Siblings

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 04 Feb 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We discuss sibling dynamics, building family bonds, and why it’s important not to forget to create special moments with your neurotypical children.

EP 304 – Teaching Self Love

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 28 Jan 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Tune in as we chat about the impact of mindfulness and how to change your child’s negative self-talk into self-love.

EP 303 – Protecting Your Marriage

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We discuss the importance of protecting your marriage or co-parenting relationship in order to build a stable foundation for your autistic child.

EP 302 – Introducing Independence

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 14 Jan 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We cover how to work with your child to establish levels of independence, regardless of where they fall on the spectrum. This episode is sponsored by BehavioralFoundation.org

EP 301 – Spreading Kindness

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 07 Jan 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We touch on the importance of treating autistic individuals with empathy and kindness as well as keeping assumptions in check and learning to let go of self placed limitations.

This episode is sponsored by KindTheory.org

EP 300 – Season 3 Trailer: Hearth & Home

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 31 Dec 2021 10:00:00 +0000

Season 3 launches on Friday, January 7, 2021, with the theme "Hearth & Home". While you wait, feel free to send us your questions by visiting our website or leave us a voicemail on speakpipe.com/embracingautism for a chance to have your voice heard on an upcoming episode. If you’d like to support us and our mission, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify and follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AutismWish.

Bonus EP – Meet our girls!

Lia & Matt McCabe — Mon, 13 Dec 2021 10:00:00 +0000

We've got a very special bonus episode for you today as we introduce our girls! You will hear a little from them as well as gain some direct insight into how our girls communicate with us in this episode. Disclaimer: Due to the challenges of recording with autistic toddlers in the studio, the audio of this episode is raw and may not be the best quality, but the content is great!

Bonus EP – 8 Gift Ideas for the Holidays

Lia & Matt McCabe — Sun, 05 Dec 2021 20:41:45 +0000

Surprise! We've got a bonus episode for you as we near the holidays. We are often asked 'what's a good holiday gift for my autistic child'? Well look no further, we've got 8 gift ideas ranging from higher-priced to lower-priced, from sensory to fine motor, yet all equally valuable.

EP 212 – Struggling to Focus

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 26 Nov 2021 10:00:00 +0000

We discuss ADHD and how it may impact your child’s ability to focus and stay on task as well as some tips to help your child manage their inattentiveness or hyperactivity while sharing our firsthand accounts of growing up with ADHD.

EP 211 – Preventing Elopement

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 19 Nov 2021 10:00:00 +0000

Tune in as we chat about the dangers of elopement, steps you can take to minimize this risk, and where to find supportive community resources.

EP 210 – Perceiving My Body

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 12 Nov 2021 10:00:00 +0000

Tune in as we discuss proprioception, or the body’s sense of balance and spatial awareness and its relationship with autism as well as what you can do to help your child if they struggle with balance, movement, and body awareness.

EP 209 – Easing Transitions

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 05 Nov 2021 09:00:00 +0000

We share insights on how to make transitions easier for your child to include tips on making holidays more autism-friendly as well as how to prepare your child for road trips, travel and more.

EP 208 – Distinguishing Meltdowns from Tantrums

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 29 Oct 2021 09:00:00 +0000

We will walk you through how to identify the differences between a meltdown, tantrum, and shutdown as well as tips on how to work through meltdowns and how to prevent them in the future.

EP 207 – Understanding Aphantasia

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 22 Oct 2021 09:00:00 +0000

We explore what it means to have Aphantasia, how it relates to autism, and how it may overlap with the other senses.

EP 206 – Hearing Voices

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 15 Oct 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Today we tackle our final sense, the sense of hearing, and how autistic children may react differently to sound than their neurotypical peers. We discuss the importance of completing a hearing evaluation as well as some adjustments or accommodations you can make to help your child cope.

EP 205 – Making Scents

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 08 Oct 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Today we chat about the sense of smell and its newfound relationship with autism. We discuss interesting findings from recent studies linking the sense of smell to social ability in autism as well as some activities you can do at home to help your child adjust to overwhelming smells.

EP 204 – Thriving Under Pressure

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 01 Oct 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Today we will talk about the sense of touch and how differences in this area can impact certain behaviors such as toe-walking, pressure-seeking, and headbanging. We will also touch on research surrounding the relationships between the vagal nerve, synesthesia, and therapies that may help.

EP 203 – Savoring Diverse Palates

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 24 Sep 2021 09:00:00 +0000

We review the sense of taste and how autistic individuals may experience this sense differently than their neurotypical peers. We discuss feeding therapy, as well as pica, oral stimming, and transitioning to self-feeding.

EP 202 – Seeing Through A Different Lens

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 17 Sep 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Join us as we focus on the sense of sight and how it may be impacted by Autism. We discuss visual sensory symptoms, stimming behaviors, and related visual impairments.

EP 201 – Senses & Sensibilities

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 10 Sep 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Welcome to Season 2 of the Embracing Autism Podcast! In the premiering episode, we introduce this season's theme of Senses & Sensibilities and tease some of the topics we will be covering in the next few episodes with a fun, lighthearted tone.

EP 200 – Season 2 Trailer: Senses & Sensibilities

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 03 Sep 2021 09:00:00 +0000

We'll be right back! Sneak a peek into Season 2: Senses & Sensibilities launching Friday, September 10, 2021, everywhere you stream podcasts.

EP 112 – Embracing Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 27 Aug 2021 09:00:00 +0000

We conclude Season One with final thoughts on how to go from 'Weathering the Storm' to 'Embracing Autism' and how to transform negative perceptions of autism to one of positivity and acceptance.

EP 111 – Anticipating Controversy

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 20 Aug 2021 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we will tackle contentious topics in the autistic community and talk about why topics such as the puzzle piece symbol, person-first language among others are controversial and hotly debated.

EP 110 – Applied Behavioral Analysis

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 13 Aug 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Unsure about ABA? In this episode, we review what's considered the 'Golden Standard' therapy for Autism, Applied Behavioral Analysis, also known as ABA and discuss common goals for this form of therapy, how it is used to improve a child's quality of life and what makes it so controversial.

EP 109 – Speech Therapy

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 06 Aug 2021 09:00:00 +0000

We take a deeper look into what you can expect at your child’s Speech Therapy (ST) sessions, what target areas Speech Therapy can help with, and some tools that may be provided to your child to include the Picture Exchange Communication System (PECS), sign language, and electronic communication devices (i.e. Augmentative and alternative communication/AACs).

EP 108 – Physical Therapy

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 30 Jul 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Tune in as we explore Physical Therapy (PT) and what you can expect during sessions as we discuss common activities, potential benefits, and how Physical Therapy can help your child work on balance, core strength, or coordination among other key areas. We also explore how you can recreate physical therapy at home.

EP 107 – Occupational Therapy

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 23 Jul 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Considering Occupational Therapy (OT)? Learn more about what you can expect in OT and some common reasons your child may be referred. We discuss examples of activities your child may work on during sessions to include heavy work, feeding therapy, and sensory regulation while sharing our personal insights and experiences with OT.

EP 106 – Finding the Balance

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 16 Jul 2021 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we discuss the various therapies your child may be referred to after receiving an Autism diagnosis and give tips on how to manage your schedule as well as what to do if your child appears to hate therapy.

EP 105 – Navigating Financial & Educational Resources

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we will review a variety of financial resources and education programs to help support your autistic child that are available in the United States. From IEPs and IFSPs to SSDI, Medicaid, and the Autism Waiver, we discuss it all! It's important to note that each state has different government programs, so please check out our show notes to learn more about your specific state.

EP 104 – Weathering the Storm

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 02 Jul 2021 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we focus on why it's okay and even natural to go through a season of grief after an autism diagnosis and how to overcome it with a simple change of perspective.

EP 103 – Conquering D-Day

Lia & Matt McCabe — Fri, 25 Jun 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Tune in as we discuss what to expect at your child's autism evaluation and compare the benefits and disadvantages of an in-person evaluation versus a telehealth or virtual assessment.

EP 102 – Prepping for D-Day

Lia & Matt McCabe — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 09:02:00 +0000

So your child is on the waitlist, now what? Autism Evaluation waitlists take forever (1-2 years!), but that doesn't mean you have to be stuck while you wait. Learn how to prepare for your child's autism diagnosis and what you can do in the meantime. From where to get your child evaluated, to how to get ahead of the waitlist, we make sure you have everything you need to know before Diagnosis Day.

EP 101 – Demystifying Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 09:01:00 +0000

What exactly is Autism Spectrum Disorder? Is my child showing red flags? Should I be concerned? Demystify Autism and learn about some common red flags, as we pull directly from our personal experience while tapping lightly into the science.

EP 100 – Welcome to Embracing Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 09:00:00 +0000

No matter where you are in your child's autism journey, we've got your back. Hi! We are Lia and Matthew McCabe, neurodiverse parents of autistic children and founders of AutismWish. Tune in as we discuss how our special needs girls inspired us to create our charity initiative and what we have in store for you on Embracing Autism.

Shownotes

This podcast episode features a married neurodivergent couple sharing their journey of raising autistic children and providing support and resources for parents. Brought to you by AutismWish.

2021

Chapters

0:00:00 Introducing Embracing Autism: A Journey with Autistic Children 0:01:30 Realizing Red Flags and Seeking Evaluation for First Child 0:04:31 Unexpected Autism Diagnosis for Second Child 0:08:35 Unnoticed Red Flags and Disconnecting 0:11:14 Coping with the Autism Diagnosis 0:16:06 Embracing the Diagnosis and Getting into Their World 0:18:32 Shifting Perspectives and Coming Together as a Family 0:20:18 Rethinking Autism and Embracing Neurodiversity 0:24:42 Expanding Resources for Parents of Autistic Children 0:26:35 Looking Forward to More Episodes and Information

Long Summary

In this episode, we discuss our personal journey as a married neurodiverse couple raising autistic children. Our goal is to provide support and resources to parents of autistic children while spreading awareness and acceptance of autism spectrum disorder. We share our own stories, tips, and guidance, hoping to create a sense of community among our listeners.

We then dive into our personal journey with autism, starting with the red flags we noticed in our first child when she was about a year and a half old. We reached out to Infants & Toddlers for more information and started to learn about autism. It was a scary and uncertain time for us because we didn't have much knowledge about autism, and we had to quickly educate ourselves.

We discovered that autism only affects a small percentage of the population, making it unlikely for us to personally know someone with autism. Our daughter's speech delay was one of the initial signs that led to her evaluation and subsequent autism diagnosis. We also noticed behaviors like lack of eye contact, playing in isolation, and stimming activities, such as arm flapping. Initially, we didn't think much of these behaviors, considering them normal for her age. However, as the evaluation process progressed, we became more aware of the possibility of autism. Eventually, our daughter received her formal autism diagnosis from a developmental pediatrician.

Surprisingly, 11 months later, our second child was also diagnosed with autism, which was unexpected for us. This second diagnosis helped us understand the autism spectrum better and the varied ways it can present in individuals. We discuss how our second child is different from our first child, with unique traits and needs.

We share the challenges we faced throughout this journey, including language regression and difficulty in socialization. We talk about our initial reaction to the diagnosis, the mixed emotions, and the fear of the unknown. We emphasize the importance of community support and acceptance in navigating the journey of autism.

We also explain how we learned to overcome challenges and embrace our children's unique strengths. We discuss techniques to connect with our children on their level and understand their world. We urge parents to rethink their perception of autism and see it as part of their child's identity, learning a new language and opening themselves up to a whole new culture and understanding.

In this episode, we also introduce our charity project, AutismWish, which aims to provide sensory therapeutic items to autistic children. We express our determination to create a support

Season 1 Trailer: From Weathering the Storm to Embracing Autism

Lia & Matt McCabe — Mon, 17 May 2021 03:16:00 +0000

Enjoy a teaser of the upcoming podcast, Embracing Autism launching Friday, June 18, 2021. This podcast is brought to you by AutismWish, granting wishes to children on the spectrum and providing parent resources. Follow us on Facebook @AutismWish or visit our website at www.autismwish.com.